Sunday, December 14, 2025

A Daily Reminder of Joy

Last year, while walking the beach on Sanibel Island during a storm with my Dad, I took this selfie.


I love this photo so much because it embodies all the life, energy, and joy I reclaimed after the separation.  It is the spirit I want to carry with me through the rest of my life.  I want to measure all relationships by how much they allow this spirit to shine through.  So I made it my lock screen photo on my phone.  That way I look at it every day and have that reminder of joy over and over again.

I'm far from a vain person and so it was weird at first having my face looking back at me on my phone but I think it was overdue.

About a year has now passed since I took that photo and so this morning Facebook asked me if I wanted to use it to share a then vs now photo.  I opened up my photos app to see what the options were and found so many that reflected that same spirit so it didn't take me but a moment to find this one from the sail away party out of New Orleans two weeks ago.


I hope next year and each of the years after I have a whole new batch of selfies in the same spirit.  If I accomplish nothing else in life but lean into this spirit, I will have lived a great life.

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