I'm at a crossroads. An opportunity has unexpectedly stepped in front of me and so I'm evaluating the pros and cons of it. As I was talking it through with my parents this evening, I realized something about me. I may agonize over what to do when faced with a big decision but once I make the decision, I just make the best out of it. I don't live in regrets. I don't spend much time contemplating "what ifs" about the past. Even with my marriage, I have really tried to stay away from what ifs that contemplate trying to undo what already has been done.
And so I ended up the call with my mom by saying "whatever decision I make will be the right one" and that was quite freeing. So I don't know what I will do but I will sleep on it. I will consider it. I might talk it over with a few more people. And then I'm just going to go with my gut.
I'm resilient. I always land on my feet. I know how to make the best of situations. I can do this.
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