Grace

I had the chance to catch up with a friend who was among the first to know my ex and I were having problems last summer.  That conversation reminded me of how much grace (and even good thoughts) I had for him for so many months after it all happened.  There was even a conversation with this friend asking her to have her husband check in on my ex-husband to make sure he was okay (this was a couples friend).  All my friends were joking about how I should get revenge while I was trying to convince them how great a guy he was.

Just imagine how messed up someone must be internally to not be willing to put any effort at all into a relationship with a woman that has that much grace for him even after he betrayed her trust.  That's the part that just baffles me.