Friday, August 9, 2024

Today I saw emotion for the first time in a long time.

This morning he had tears in his eyes.  I don't really know why.  All I know is that he seemed to be re-thinking how we were handling one aspect of our property division.  And then this evening he came home early and was in quite a mood when he got home so I questioned him.  His response was that he is going through a lot and that everyone seems to think it is a cake walk for the person leaving.  I told him I had not made that assumption but asked him not to take it out on me.

But oh how I wanted to point out to him that we are only here today because of all the decisions he made.  I held my tongue though.  It wouldn't have helped anything.  He needs to figure that out on his own.  He has a lot he needs to figure out on his own if he wants to have a healthy relationship with someone in the future.

And then he was laughing and joking after dinner as if he didn't have a care in the world.

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