I don't completely understand how two people can sit across a kitchen table together and with honesty, respect, and kindness have a rational discussion about how to divide up all their assets and debts and what alimony should be paid yet couldn't have the necessary conversations throughout their marriage about how to make the relationship work. There's just this big disconnect here.
Maybe the reason we lasted as long as we did is because we work together so well on practical issues and we are so often on the same page about big decisions. He didn't have to worry about avoiding conflict when it came to so many important things because we just weren't in disagreement on those things.
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