It just feels really crappy that my spouse picked now to decide he wanted out, especially since he claims he has been unhappy for a long time. Why wait until after we have mapped out two years of some pretty exciting vacation plans? Why wait until after circumstances have gotten so bad it is making me feel some uncertainty in our jobs? Why wait until just after I miss out on a promotion (for a job I have been doing of 1.5 years and continue to do)? Why wait until just after I start experiencing some symptoms of perimenopause?
I realize he only had control over the first one (although that one feels really deceptive) but I just feel like stress is getting thrown at me from so many different directions.
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